akvietti22:
Another point to add is that us single women HAVE to always remember that there is an enemy out there who wants nothing more than to take our purity. It's OUR responsibility to guard that. Sometimes we as Christians (and I'm only speaking from my own experience) become push overs because we don't want to hurt anybody's feelings. I just heard T.D. Jakes say today on podcast...."You know what we Christian's do when one person is attacked? We watch the linching. Yes, we do. We all come out and say, 'Oh that's a shame!' and we watch the linching. And then when the linching is over, we take it back and say, 'somebody should've done something.' BUT THE BIBLE says... "The kingdom suffers violence and violent take it by forth." (Matt 11:12) We need some violent people. We need some radical people."
at 10:14PM 10/19/09
ericag:
c) make sure you say, stop with the ninjas buddy
at 10:16PM 10/19/09
mwalk:
D) post this on BU2 and they get the message loud and clear. You're amazing Ninga!
at 10:24PM 10/19/09
lowah507:
I am in total agreement Inga. It drives me nuts. And yet we are still always reminded, how often must must I forgive my brother....7 X's 70. It's a delicate balance. We need to be there for each other. I def think we need to be each others violent radical protectors...us single ladies need to look out for each other and remind our brothers to stop hurting our sisters by contiual interference. Because it builds hurt and anger and resentment. They are not reflecting God to women at all. Remind them to stop allowing their emotions to rule all. Keep things in check brothers, please.
at 10:28PM 10/19/09
chelly4:
wow, this was a timely word, i was literally hiding from a guy tonight. . .
chelsearose:
Thank you Inga!! ahaha. Jenny and I were just talking about this.
at 12:24AM 10/20/09
lilsarah387:
I just had a convo with some bros about this. They hadn't done anything but we were trying to explain how some guys, and most of them are probably legit, come off as total creepy. I am not afraid to be really honest with a guy, I feel like it's one of my jobs as a sister is to guard other girls by helping my bros out....because honestly they just don't get it sometimes. :)
at 12:57AM 10/20/09
nobility:
I know some commercial fisherman that can take care of that for you. My boys :)
coco08:
I think it's funny how no men have posted yet lol!!!! Oh wait I guess one just did! Yeah sometimes guys need a talking to!
at 10:56AM 10/20/09
coco08:
Then again, if we are talking about bssm students, it is that time of year where this starts to happen! Funny how the holly spirit works in times of seasons, n how he starts to filter out things that causes guys to act kkkkrrraazzzzzyyyy!!!! Lmao
at 10:59AM 10/20/09
woodster777:
ingamae- your a powerful woman and you are incontrol of you!!! YES! :)Chris
at 01:48PM 10/20/09
ingamae:
Well this is not for me cuz if it was I'd tell them on been up 2 via a post like Mary said and name them and say: back off buddy! It was a couple friends of mine-- @Erica-I don't mind ninjas I actually like them. But u already knew that. I'm talking about when they text you, call you, leave voicemails, send pictures, and follow you all around when you have told them not to---I don't give my number out but one of my friends did and well---the rest is history. In the end God rocks. Period
at 02:03PM 10/20/09
ingamae:
Ninjas are less personal and fun and if anyone gets offended at Ninjas be glad you're not being texted, called, etc---a ninja is not a big deal I'd prefer that lol
at 02:08PM 10/20/09
akvietti22:
@Ingamae You know who you are, what you want, and what you don't want. I LOVE that about you. Thanks for giving other women permission to be themselves. ;-) And, as lowah507 said in her comment, being mine, (and obviously other women's), violent radical protector. You rock dot com! hahaha! ;-)
at 02:16PM 10/20/09
ms_amazing:
First) for the record, ninjas are pretty personal, because not everyone wants their picture posted all over the world wide web.
Second) Don't ever give your number to a guy. Period. Please, bend the rules for a good friend, but use common sense! If I hear about one more "stalker"...........
Due to the fact that this has come up lately w/friends of mine::::Ladies, if a guy is ever "bugging" u beyond what ur comfortable with here's my advice: a) 1 Peter 5:6-cast it to Jesus-He will protect u & b)Be Direct and say: Stop talking to me,texting me
at 09:38PM